From sharing closet space to coming out of the closet
Dear Alice, When I came to Columbia, my roommate and I got along really well. We still do. However, three weeks into the year, I learned that he is gay. I have no problems with this, I'd like to think...
View ArticleRoommate with B.O.?
Dear Alice, I am a graduate student. My roommate, also a grad student, has B.O., big-time! She bathes so infrequently, that it takes her almost two months to go through a bar of soap (I'm not...
View ArticleRoommate masturbates every night
Dear Alice,I'm a freshman with a problem. I have a roommate who masturbates every night and it makes me sick. She waits until she thinks I'm asleep and then really goes at it. One night she even woke...
View ArticleHelp — My roommate's a lesbian!
Dear Alice,I need advice. I think that my roommate is a lesbian. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
View ArticleLiving room littered with roommate's rubbers
Dear Alice,I have a problem. The problem is my new roommate. We didn't know that he was gay when we asked him to be our roommate because he went out with girls before he moved in. After a month of...
View ArticleFamily feuds over furnace
Dear Alice, Please help a family dispute. What is the optimal temperature to keep the furnace at during the day and night during the winter months, and can keeping the temperature too high result in...
View ArticleAttractive man wants to set limits
Alice,I am an attractive male. This is my first year in college, and quite frankly, many girls are all over me (or at the least are constantly around me and in my face). I am not used to this because...
View ArticleAm I a dork for not being a party animal?
Dear Alice,I know I just arrived at college, but already I feel like such a dork! Unlike everyone else I've met, I like to go to bed before 3 A.M. I like eight hours of sleep. I don't drink or smoke...
View ArticleNo one cares about drunken, messy hall mates, or do they?
Alice, If no one in my dorm seems to care if students come in drunk, creating noise and messes, what can I do?
View ArticleHow to tell a nosy roommate to step off
Hi Alice, I'm a junior in college, and I live in a suite with five other girls. We are all best friends, except for one girl. None of us like her because she says anything that pops into her head (she...
View ArticleI don't want to sexile my new roommate
Alice,My girlfriend and I both go to the same college and have been sleeping together for a while now, which has been easy be cause she has a room of her own. However, because of the way university...
View ArticleConcerned over co-ed bathrooms
Hi Alice, I'm a new student at Columbia and have a kind of odd problem. You see, I went to a really conservative boarding school and was never very comfortable with my body (especially when it...
View ArticleHomophobic roommate
Dear Alice, I'm a lesbian and I think that my roommate could be slightly homophobic. We have never really had a great relationship but now that I've come out to her, we don't talk much at all. How do...
View ArticleMy roommate keeps eating my food
Dear Alice!Soooooo my roommate keeps eating my food… How do I tell her to stop politely?
View ArticleWalk-through double room blues
Dear Alice, At Columbia, there are three kinds of rooms: singles (one person in one room), doubles (two people in one room), and walk-throughs (two people in two rooms with a door separating them). My...
View ArticleFloormate leads reckless life
Dear Alice:There is a woman living on my floor who I think is living a reckless life. Within the first couple of weeks of school, she has already had two one-night stands with two different men — one...
View ArticleBullying
Dear Alice,I'm sharing an apartment with three other people. Our ages vary from 17 to 30+. I consider myself a very neat person and respectful to others. We all share the cleaning duties of our...
View ArticleHelp — My roommate's a lesbian!
Dear Alice,I need advice. I think that my roommate is a lesbian. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
View ArticleFrom sharing closet space to coming out of the closet
Dear Alice,When I came to Columbia, my roommate and I got along really well. We still do. However, three weeks into the year, I learned that he is gay. I have no problems with this, I'd like to think...
View ArticleHow to tell a nosy roommate to step off
Hi Alice,I'm a junior in college and I live in a suite with five other girls. We are all best friends, except for one girl. None of us like her because she says anything that pops into her head (she...
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